5 things you will learn from studying with a chronic illness

Person standing on a bridge with birds in the distant
Person standing on a bridge with birds in the distant

If it’s one thing that you’re made more aware of with a chronic illness, be that physical or mental, it’s what you can or cannot control.

Each day your illness can dictate your life. For some, it's what or when you eat. For others, it's what you wear or where you can go. There are limits that are dependent on how your illness is affecting you on a given day.

You also can’t control how others react to your illness. You can mediate it, you can try your hardest to ignore problems, but illness has a sneaky way of paying you back in kind for every sign ignored, every care not taken.

If, like me, you’re studying with a chronic illness, it’s important to focus on the things that you can control, and to work on being kinder to ourselves for issues that are not our fault.

Here are five things you will learn at university that aren’t on any curriculum.

You will learn ...

Focus

Everyone knows where the university medical centre is: it's an imposing building with sterile white interiors. You will learn the doctor’s secretaries' names off by heart, notice when they get a new plant, and know the shifts the different receptionists take.

You will start to make jokes about it being your second home.

At first, they’re tinged with sadness, but then you’re belly-laughing with friends over it. Maybe some people wouldn’t find it funny, but life can be hard sometimes and it’s easier to laugh.

You will see many different doctors in the course of your degree, most of them kind. Some of them won’t be. You will get over your fear of blood tests. Know medical jargon, and know that when people ask oh, what's wrong then? that they didn’t actually want that much detail. But you had to research obsessively or the doctors would say that you are too young or you worry that they'd assume you’re trying to get out of an assignment.

You are not trying to dodge an assignment.

You wish, more than anything, that you could do the assignment. You will learn that you shouldn’t compare yourself to anybody else.

More from Bloomsbury

Self-kindness

Many students would benefit from a little more self-compassion. Discover three strategies to bring more self-kindness to your studies and life in Stella Cottrell’s blog Bring some self-kindness to your study.

Winding road

If you haven’t already, you might find it helpful to reflect on the support that is available to you. The page What are my personal resources? is a good starting point.